New here and need advise please

Recently I have been having feelings for my first love even though we have not been together for years and years. We are both single but rarely see each other. When we do it is just a fleeting exchange hi how are you etc. but he is always really pleased to see me and would give me hug and check me out subtley In fact he has always been a complete gentleman as I had been in a relationship, he even asked me once what my then boyfriend did for a living which made me wonder if maybe he was jealous. Over the past few months I have been in the local paper with work related things and A few days ago I was crossing the road and he was driving past, he said hello then he jokingly said he wouldnt be buying the local paper anymore cos I was always in it. He said this in a laughing jokey way. What I wonder is could this be deemed as flirting, it seemed like it to me. Also do you think he might have feelings for me. I know this reads like a teenager has written it which is riduclous cos we are our 30's but he just has this effect on me. I would never call him or suggest coofee or anything but I just live for these causal meetings which can be months apart. Do you think he cares about me.|||I've been in the same situation as you but my when my ex used to come into my work (dentists) it would be his lunch time so we'd go for a coffee afterwards. One day he came in especially to tell me he was moving to the other end of the country %26amp; said he'd always thought (although he'd never said anything to me) that we'd end up together. He left %26amp; I never told him how I felt about him %26amp; I've regretted it ever since (%26amp; thats over 20 years ago). Seems he does like you so be brave %26amp; give it a go. What have you got to loose?|||if you are now both single why not ask him next time you see him if hes free for a coffee or somehow let him know you are single so he can make the first move, you need to get together to see if these feelings are just a wanting for the unattainable or maybe something more|||why dont next time you see him ask him out for a coffee or something - and then see where it takes you all he can do is say no and then you will know where you stand! I know you say you would never ask him for coffee but you cant wait around waiting for him to make the first move! It sounds like you have very strong feelings for him still and maybe he does too for you, but you will never know until you try!


Or how about seeking him out on friends reunited or facebook or something similar then you could email him and start off that way if your too embaressed for face to face


good luck and go for it life is far too short to have regrets about not doing something!


|||The answer to that only he knows.


You need to be a bit more forthcoming at your next meeting and although you say you cannot...suggest a coffee.


You say you do not meet up with him often so why are you scared to suggest it? You dont see him on a daily basis if he refuses.


Make it casual and as he is being friendly will feel relaxed I assume.


He may think you still have a partner and not want to suggest it himself.


Dont waste your life away hoping... ask him for coffee if he refuses he may be busy but give him your number...if he doesnt calk you have your answer.


Good Luck