Male hair styling question about hair wax/glue?

ok so started gelling my hair moths ago and my hair easily stays in place even when gel isn't in. So my question is i am looking for like a hair wax that i can rub through my hair that gives me a non hard effect that also gives me that wet look that looks causal|||Agree with your first answer. Axe hair putty is amazing. Theres a messy look one and also the spiked up look. I own The spiked up look putty (im a girl lol) it straightens the kinks in my hair and does any style.|||Hair Axe. the Axe hair wax is lovely :)