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MY PARTNER AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 7 YEAR WITH 2 BOYS (AGED 6 N 7 YRS OLD) I FEEL MY PARTNER IS VERY SELFISH AND HE IS ABUSIVE TOWARDS ME. EVERY YEAR HE TAKES HOLIDAYS TO NZ,SYDNEY AND FIJI FOR SOCCER TOURNAMENTS.HE IS VERY MUCH INVOLVED IN SOCCER AND PUTS HIS FRIENDS AS FIRST PRIORTY. WE FEEL NEGLECTED BY HIM, HE IS NOT A GOOD ROLE FOR KIDS AS FATHER OR HUSBAND. HE DOESNT NOT HAVE A CLOSE BOND WITH HIS KIDS AS A FATHER SHOULD. HE NEVER SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH THEM OR TAKES THEM ANYWAY. SEVEN 24 HOURS THEY ARE WITH ME. I FELL THIS MARRIAGE IS NOT WORKING AND HE IS NOT MAKING ANY EFFECT TO WORK IT EITHER. HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN COUNSELING . IAM A FULLTIME UNI STUDENT WITH CAUSAL JOB AND FULL TIME MOTHER. IM DOING THE BEST I CAN BUT FEEL GUILTY FOR NOT BEEN THERE FOR KIDS. WE HAVE DECIDED TO GO OUR SEPARATE WAY. WHAT ARE YOU THOUGHT. WE HAVE BEEN SPARATED BEFORE BUT RECENTLY GOT BACK FOR KIDS BEST INTEREST. HE IS CONTROLLING. I HOPE IM DOING THE RIGHT THING FOR MY KIDS AND MYSELF|||dont worry about it your doing the right thing if he's going to act like this while his kids are young what makes you think he will change anyways dont worry about him live your life happy with your kids|||You are doing the right thing for you and your children. None of you need that selfcentred controlling person in your lives. Keep strong and change your life for the better.|||Yes you are.Him abusing you is enough to leave and never come back.It doesn't stop with you,it carries over to your children.The best interest for you and your children is to get out and don't come back.There are thousands,may be millions of single and divorced Mothers who take care of there children without a man.So you see,it can be done.Plan on leaving,(PLAN).Don't just think about it,(DO IT),and make your children and leaving your focus.